1. CRYING: Believe it or not, they
do not only cry at funerals, they cry for babes too. Quite a number of
guys are guilty of this.
Most of them come out doing “Odi
eshi” (Igbo slang for ‘not bothered’). But the reverse is the case for a
guy who cry after a heart break especially if he was in love with the
girl.
2. STAY INDOORS: For some people,
they cannot handle going out and people are asking where his babe is.
The truth is, you can’tbe explaining to everyone. So some guys who can’t
handle the heat avoid friends and events where they might see the ex or
where people who knew them as a couple might be. Meanwhile some guys go
the opposite direction.
3. HANGING OUT A LOT: This also
occurs often. Guys do this because they need to take their minds off the
good times they shared with the ex. The kissing and hugging, the
hanging out on the beach, movie dates etc. So to avoid thinking a lot,
they channel their energy into something else.
4. STALKING: From the interviews, I
found that guys do this too. This is not the usual scary stalking. This
is the subtle kind using social media to find out how the ex is faring,
dressing to kill to go for events because you know the ex-girlfriend
would be there, and other little things involved.
5. DRINKING: We all know some guys
quit smoking or drinking because of a girl they fell in love with. But
as soon as the relationship is over, they are back to old habits. They
know they do not have to answer to anyone anymore or feel guilty.
Alcohol and cigarettes tend to be their consolation so they drown and
choke in it.
6. SULKING: Yes, I said sulking!
Some guys actually sulk when they are sad. After all the hanging out
with friends, partying, drinking and loads more, they still end up alone
withtheir thoughts. Back to square one! Trying to figure out where it
went wrong. That is when sleep refuses to show up. Even after counting
the ceiling a thousand times, they still can’t stop thinking of her.
Even if some guys won’t agree with this, I am sure some others can
relate.
7. STARE AT THE GIRL’S PICTURE:
Personally, I found this hilarious! I didn’t know guys actually did
this. I guess ladies aren’t the only softies in this world then.
8. ALL BABES ARE THE SAME:
Obviously, it is after bad breakups you start to hear thingslike this.
No matter how nice the girl is, they do not want to believe she is
different from the next girl.
No mercy on the babes after a heart
is broken. So in retaliation moves, he would start plotting to break the
hearts of as many girls as possible! Just kidding but you get my drift!
9. CALL THE SECOND OPTION: It’s
after they break up with their girlfriend, that they remember the other
babe who liked them but they couldn’t date, because they were in a
relationship. She becomes his new besty. He startsto tell her he likes
her and boom!They go on from there. But this isnever a good fortune for
the girl because she ends up being the rebound. No girl likes to be on
that end of the rope.
10. TRY TO ACT LIKE THEY DON’TCARE:
This is typical amongst guys. They put up a front so they do not get
dissed by their friends.They try to hide that they are really softies.
Some even go as far as dating their ex’s friends or a hotter babe just
to get back at her.Things we do for love!!! At the end of the day, it is
all based on the maturity of the guy. Sometimes it works out
negatively, and sometimes positively. Choose your path!
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