No matter how careful you tend to be as a man, you could make some
mistakes and probably make your lady angry in the process. Being a real
man doesn’t mean those moments won’t come, it means being able to calm the situation down and do the right thing.
There are 10 simple things you can do to calm your lady down when she’s angry.
1. ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKE
If you did something wrong which made your lady angry, the first
thing to do to make your lady less angry is accepting your mistake. Make
her feel she’s right and you are totally wrong and her anger would
reduce by more than 50 percent (that is if you didn’t sleep with her
best friend, lol). Women love it when a man can admit he’s wrong;
psychologically, this boosts their esteem and this is the first step to
getting that lady’s heart in order.
2. APOLOGISE
This is the first step to calming her down when she’s angry. Sorry
might not solve a thing, it might not cover for your mistakes, but it’s
the right thing to do. Accepting your mistake and apologising for it is a
very important thing to do when she’s angry.
3. TRY TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM
If it is still possible to solve the problem, then by all means do.
But if it’s impossible, try to take responsibility for your action, make
up for your mistake and assure her that you wouldn’t repeat the mistake
again.
4. DO SOMETHING SHE LIKES
If she has forgiven you, the next step is to put a smile on her face.
Do something you know she likes; give her a treat and try to make her
happy. In spite of this, you should still remember the mistake you made
and be sorry for it.
5. PAMPER HER
Of course she wants to be pampered after everything. Even though she
isn’t angry anymore, give her a treat to pamper her. Doing this will
restore the peace between the both of you — and your relationship can
then forge ahead.
6. REMAIN CALM
A calm nature is the best way to calm your lady when she’s angry.
Women have a way of wanting you to react to her when she’s angry so that
she can flare up the more but your ability to maintain your calmness
would surprise and also calm her down in ways you can’t imagine.
7. DON’T TRY TO WIN THE ARGUMENT
Where most men get this wrong is when they try to win an argument
with their lady especially when she’s angry. Even If you won’t take
sides with her, try as much as possible not to make your relationship
argument a contest. Once a contest comes in, there would only be one
loser. If she sees that you are acting mature about the whole thing then
anger might be far from her.
8. EVEN IF YOU DON’T AGREE, SHOW HER RESPECT
Show her that respect that you value her stance even though you don’t
agree with her; maintain a calm demeanour and she would have little
reason to get angry. Every lady loves a man who would respect her;
respect her when she’s angry and she wouldn’t lose value of you.
9. ACT LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED
After an argument or anything that has made her angry, the onus would
fall on you to push the relationship out of the mud. One way you can do
this is to act like nothing happened; she might not fall for this
easily but she will eventually; by acting like nothing happened I don’t
mean you should leave the problem lingering; that would never work. Act
like nothing happened on your side, act like you were never angry even
though you know that you were and things might get calm.
10. LEARN TO WALK AWAY
Walking away sometimes can be the best way to calm an angry lady
down. If you talk back at her when she’s in this mood, you would most
definitely flare her up – it’s like adding fire to petrol. The best way
to calm your lady is when you walk out at the heat of the moment rather
than causing more heat. By this you have struck a blow psychologically
and she might begin to feel guilty that she chased you away. What
silence can achieve most times, words can’t.
When a woman is happy, the relationship would be happy; learn how to
calm your lady when she’s angry and the relationship would be a happy
one.
If you’ve ever made a mistake that got her angry, there’s no point
trying to talk your way out of it or making up loads of excuses. Just
use these 10 simple steps and win her over in no time.
